The Mining Journal 1900 Obituary of Mary Ann Simons |
Entry 5: Seeing Mary Ann
My search was at a
standstill. Mary Ann was that inevitable brick wall faced by so many. But I was
wearing blinders. These needed to be shed before I could break through what I
thought to be a solid obstacle.
The treasured
family paper gave me Mary Ann’s birthdate but without a maiden name, I could
not locate her parents and thus garner more names for my tree collection. I became
obsessed with finding this name. Either her death certificate or even the death
certificate of my great great grandmother, Harriett should contain this
precious information. Asking my mother
was of little use as she had never asked these kinds of questions or remembered
hearing what I considered to be essential family data. So, I sought these
certificates. Alas, Harriett’s death certificate showed that the informant did
not remember her mother’s maiden name. To make matters worse, there was no
certificate for Mary Ann in the Marquette County Courthouse. I turned to
another source and emailed a clerk in Orange County, Vermont who located
Harriett’s marriage license. The morning it arrived in my inbox, tears came to
my eyes as under mother’s name, only the words, Mary Ann, were listed. Certain
that there had been an error by the person looking for Mary Ann’s death
certificate at the Marquette County Courthouse, I asked my niece to go back,
but like me, she discovered no certificate existed.
In subsequent
visits to Marquette, I took to sitting in the darkened microfiche room at the Peter
White Public Library. Here I mined through the local paper, pausing to see on
the screen the reality of Mary Ann’s world. I halted the machine’s reels to
look at advertisements of the day. False teeth for the exorbitant price of $20
and two pounds of hamburger meat for 25 cents made me smile. I laughed out loud
at the articles announcing a person had traveled to Ishpeming from Negaunee, the mileage a
pittance by today’s standards.
When I found Mary
Ann’s short obituary, scraps of information began to take shape for me and paint
a richer portrait of Mary Ann than her name, birth, marriage, and death dates
ever could. I learned she had been confined to her bed since May with breast
cancer. While I did not pay attention to the children’s names mentioned in the
paragraph, I was beginning to consider Mary Ann’s canvas, the era in which she
walked and talked, her possible friendships, family relationships, and daily
routine. The obituary said she was “highly respected by all.” What had she done
to receive that accolade? The few sentences began to stir my sense of wonder. I
had never heard of the church where her funeral would be held. I had always
thought this was a Methodist family. What was the People’s Church? She had been
“ailing” for two years. Who had helped her? How did she manage?
The connections
started to come into focus as I wondered about the moment that census taker
came to her door in June of 1900. Did he come to her bedside? Did she struggle
to the door? Could Harriett’s presence as a caretaker for the day explain why
her name was first written on the form and then crossed out? I was moving toward a full portrait of Mary Ann Simons. These are the steps I may not
have taken had her maiden name readily appeared for me.
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